上海千花贵族宝贝

The writer is a writer @ Detective Zhang.

Movies are an escape from ordinary, monotonous and repetitive daily life.

"Little Shede", which focuses on the topic drama "Young to Young" and "Little to Early", opened low and went high. After two weeks of broadcasting, it won the first place in the ratings of the new drama in the same period, and it was even more sought after during the broadcasting process.

　

As the third work in the "Xiao" series of parenting education plays, Xiao Shede has a higher degree of discussion than the previous "Xiao Bie Li" and "Xiao Huan Xi".

Under the crazy topic of "involution" for several weeks in a row, the play ushered in a grand finale during the May Day holiday.

　

Well, affected by the hot search, I didn’t hold my breath after all.

　

In fact, the views on Xiao Shede are quite contradictory. On the one hand, both the young actor and the old face perform very well, and the educational topics involved are true and heartfelt. On the other hand, in order to strengthen the plot line, the design of a contradictory play on average every day is indeed exaggerated.

　

First of all, Xiao Shede sets up a pair of contradictory sisters in the relationship between characters.

Nan Li (Song Jia) and Tian Yulan (Rulu) are both daughters of Nan Jianlong (Zhang Guoli). However, Nanli is Nanjianlong’s biological daughter, and Tian Yulan is Nanjianlong’s wife’s child when he got married for the second time.

Due to his incompatible personality, Nan Jianlong divorced Nanli’s mother when Nanli was in high school, married Tian Yulan’s mother as his wife, and Nanli left his father with her mother. After many years, Nan Li gradually let go, but she has not yet come out of this trauma.

　

Unfortunately for Tian Yulan family of origin, even though she moved into Nanjia with her mother, she still felt extremely inferior. She had to work hard to earn money and marry a good family to pay homage, so that she could feel a little sense of accomplishment in Nanjia.

　

The first episode of Xiao Shede began with a family dinner, and two families took their children to their grandfather’s house for dinner.

During the dinner, everything from clothes to make-up, to children’s grades, trophies and talents became the topic "weapons", and the two men were fighting and fighting.

A dinner was a circus, and the family dinner ended in discord.

　

Nan Li was born in an intellectual family, received a good education and had her own ideal career. Her family is happy and her career is smooth. She has a son and a daughter, and her husband cares about her family. Both of them uphold the Buddhist concept of parenting and hope that their children will have a happy childhood.

Tian Yulan was born in the bottom, and suffered from hardships since childhood. Life didn’t improve until she came to Nanjia with her mother. With three degrees, the husband doesn’t have a serious job, and he doesn’t care about the children. Their lives need the support of the rich husband-in-law, and their desire to have a successful child is extremely urgent. They are typical "chicken baby mothers" in children’s education.

This is also the biggest reason why the two families have different ideas about education.

　

In the play, Nan Li didn’t enroll her daughter in extracurricular classes at the beginning. She didn’t want to put too much pressure on her children, but hoped that they could be happy. Even if she occasionally got the bottom score, she never scolded her children, so she didn’t pay attention to how Xiaoshengchu chose a school at the beginning.

Tian Yulan is well aware of the enrollment rate, training courses, and policy trends. She is also fully responsible for her son Ziyou. She participates in every learning stage and arranges her study life in a planned way. Her son is indeed among the best under his education. She hopes that her son can successfully enter the junior high school of key middle schools.

However, as children enter the fifth grade of primary school, they are about to face "junior high school", and the two educational models have corresponding problems.

　

Because I didn’t go to cram school, the problem of Huanhuan’s grades began to appear slowly. Huanhuan, who was still in the middle and upper reaches, suddenly fell to the bottom. When she lost her class cadre title, she was laughed at by her classmates. The originally optimistic and cheerful child collapsed.

Achievement and happiness are not a choice for Huanhuan, and she is not happy with poor grades.

　

On the other hand, Nan Li always thought that she was bound to win the position of director, but she was replaced by another "airborne" talent with a high academic background.

　

In the play, Nan Li chatted with the president and mentioned the problem of children’s reading. The president thinks that the problem of children going to school is the trouble of our generation.

　

"Our children can’t get into our own alma mater, and their positions are not as high as ours. Their income and social status are not as good as their parents after they become adults." These words made Nan Li begin to realize that not paying attention to the problem of children’s reading may delay their children’s future.　

Nan Li wanted to "take a shortcut" by buying the school district, but after buying the school district, she found that the policy had changed and the school district had to have three accounts. ……

　

In the end, it was not because of Tian Yulan’s influence that Nan Li and her husband started to have a baby, but because of their anxiety about themselves and Nan Li.

　

Although Tian Yulan’s son Zi You has been doing well in his "Chicken Baby" mode, Zi You actually doesn’t like Olympiad, nor is he a mathematical genius. He loves football and hopes to become a biologist in the future.

But these have nothing to do with the entrance examination he will face. In the crucial year of "junior high school", Tian Yulan even forbade him to spend his energy on things unrelated to his studies.

　

Tian Yulan’s excessive pursuit of famous schools made her feel nothing even when she heard the teacher scold Zi You in public, because the child’s grades did improve.

Under the pressure of Tian Yulan, Zi You had hallucinations in the examination room of the Olympic Mathematics Competition, tore the examination paper and overturned the table, and his grades also fell to the middle reaches from the previous three days.

　

Only after seeing a psychologist did I know that Ziyou’s hallucination was caused by excessive pressure. The doctor advised parents not to put too much pressure on their children and let them relax as much as possible.

　

Tian Yulan, who originally regarded his son as his spiritual sustenance, was hit hard and his spirit completely collapsed …

　

In addition to the first two groups of education modes that are common in daily life, Xiao Shede also has a special family, that is, parents with insufficient strength reserves have gifted children.

　

In the play, Mi Tao’s family are migrant workers in Shanghai. Although Mi Tao’s father runs a fruit stand and her mother works part-time in the protagonist’s home, the family’s economic conditions are difficult, but Mi Tao is a talented girl with an IQ of more than 140.

Compared with Ziyou and Huanhuan’s family, they are fighting for the places of "prestigious schools". As long as it is for children, any excess consumption can be done without blinking. Mi Tao’s family has to empty their money and take multiple odd jobs to make up for the children’s tuition in order to get a gold medal class and get rid of the original living environment for their children’s education.

The pressure of family makes Mi Tao feel that spending money is "making mistakes", and money has become a curse that binds Mi Tao. After living in a big city, Mi Tao received a good education, but compared with most middle-class students, she also had a huge gap …

　

In fact, everyone in the play is a victim in the environment of educational involution, because as long as it is related to children, no parent can always remain rational.

　

"A theater,

The 21st century is a highly information-based era. The appearance of the Internet makes the information spread more quickly and conveniently in the whole country and even the whole world. However, due to the lack of strong planning and management of the network environment, we are often blinded by false statements while receiving effective information.

In particular, some famous experts and scholars, any comments they make on the Internet will be regarded as authoritative theories, so they should be more cautious to avoid misleading the world.

Friends who like history should be familiar with the name Yi Zhongtian. He was invited to explain the history of the Three Kingdoms period in the column of Lecture Room. His vivid and interesting way of telling the story in the program was profound and three-dimensional, which left a deep impression on people.

He has gradually become a popular historical and cultural celebrity, and even become an enlightener of many young people’s history and culture.Because he has his own views and attitudes towards history, he has been caught in the storm of public opinion over the years because of many remarks.

Yi Zhongtian has repeatedly said in public that "China has been up and down for five thousand years" is actually inaccurate.According to academic research, 5,000 years refers to the span of Chinese culture, not the time when Chinese civilization existed.

Culture and civilization, the word difference, but the meaning is far from each other.Yi Zhongtian also wrote "Our Destiny and Choice for 3,700 Years" when talking about Chinese civilization in his book "The History of China in Yi Zhongtian".Then where did he come from when he said this time of 3.7 thousand years?

The reason why Yi Zhongtian put forward such a view is actually drawing lessons from western scholars’ saying: "The establishment of a country is the premise of the origin of civilization, and the appearance of cities is the symbol of the establishment of a country".

In the study of history, to determine whether a civilization exists, the most important thing is to have cultural relics of this period, followed by historical documents. This research view has been recognized as an "international consensus".

In the view of western scholars, Chinese civilization originated from Shang Dynasty, and Xia Dynasty before Shang Dynasty did not necessarily exist, because no cultural relics about Xia Dynasty have been unearthed in China.

There are few documents about the Xia Dynasty, and there has never been any records of the Xia Dynasty in Oracle Bone Inscriptions unearthed in the Shang Dynasty adjacent to it. Therefore, western scholars have always denied that the Xia Dynasty ever existed, and it was not until the excavation of Erlitou cultural site that it was confirmed that the Xia Dynasty did exist.

The Erlitou site has a history of about 3,700 years after textual research. Yi Zhongtian also stated in his book that he took Erlitou culture as the boundary before the origin of Chinese civilization, which is also an important basis for his proposal that Chinese civilization is only 3,700 years old.

However, the exploration of history is endless. Because of the long time, there are many historical relics that we are difficult to discover, but it does not mean that they have never existed at all. As a famous scholar of history and culture, Yi Zhongtian has repeatedly denied that China’s 5,000-year history is indeed too arbitrary and one-sided.

Where did the well-known saying "China has been up and down for five thousand years" come from?? The Historical Records compiled by Sima Qian in the Western Han Dynasty recorded the history of nearly 3,000 years from the Huangdi period to the Emperor Wudi’s period, and the Emperor Wudi has a history of nearly 2,000 years so far, so the history of Chinese civilization of 5,000 years can be completely recognized.

Although "Historical Records" is mixed with many personal opinions of Sima Qian, according to Sima Qian, "Historical Records" is"The words of a hundred schools of thought make a family.".

He traversed mountains and rivers, read local customs, and compiled all historical materials, experiences and feelings. It can indeed be called a change from ancient times to modern times, and his credibility is very high.

Some historians in the west also affirmed whether the Chinese civilization existed for five thousand years. The former Soviet historian Stuart Luwei mentioned something about China in his book "The Ancient East".

He once wrote in his book that "China has a history of 10,000 years", and Hegel once said: "China is the oldest country in the world, and the origin of world history should start with the history of China".

Yi Zhongtian also denied the historical facts recorded in the two works, Shangshu and Guoyu, which exist today, and then denied the history of Chinese civilization 3,700 years ago.

However, historians maintain a strict skeptical attitude towards civilizations with clear literature records but no unearthed cultural relics, and will not easily deny the existence of these historical civilizations, but leave those that cannot be verified for the time being to future generations for textual research.Yi Zhongtian’s statement is actually extremely disrespectful to historical documents.

Yi Zhongtian once said, "Civilization contains three elements, namely philosophy, religion and art",China’s ancient works such as River Map, Luoshu and Fuxi Bagua depict the ancient people’s understanding of the natural landscape by watching the sun, the moon and the stars, and are full of philosophical thoughts of the connection between man and nature.

The totem culture worshipped by the early tribes is also the embryonic form of religious belief, and these things have a history of at least 7 thousand years.

The Hemudu cultural site found in the Yangtze River valley, the Banpo cultural site found in the Yellow River valley and the Dawenkou cultural site have a history of at least 6,000 years. A large number of bones, jade, wood and pottery were unearthed in these early cultural sites.

Among them, painted pottery is the most famous, with various shapes, exquisite and meticulous patterns and colorful and heavy colors.Aren’t these real works of art the real evidence of the existence of Chinese civilization?

According to Yi Zhongtian’s definition of civilization, Chinese civilization should exist for at least 6,000 to 7,000 years. However, there is no documentary record of these cultures, and Chinese civilization is defined as about 5,000 years with real records, which also maintains the humble attitude of China people.

However, no matter how to define the existence time of Chinese civilization, it will not only be 3,700 years as Yi Zhongtian said.Yi Zhongtian’s own remarks before and after are self-contradictory, even difficult to justify.

At present, it is a democratic and open era, and everyone has the right to express his own opinions.Yi Zhongtian, as a public figure, should be responsible for what he said, and should not be the fuse to mislead people to interpret history.

The responsibility of cultural celebrities is not only to spread the true historical facts and culture to the public, but also to spread a positive attitude towards life and become a civilized benchmark for the public.

As a historian, we should be more modest and prudent. Although the real cultural relics we can explore now can only be traced back to about 3,700 years ago, with the passage of time, science and technology have made progress.

Maybe at some time in the future, we will unearth the sites of earlier civilization and break the current speculation about the Yao, Shun and Yu era.We need to respect and revere history.Taking advantage of a moment’s talk and jumping to conclusions will often only make you not recognized.

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